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Tips: How to find the perfect partner

Discussion in 'Helpful Tip's And Guides' started by Otys, Aug 29, 2015.

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  1. Otys

    Otys Demon DR Supporter

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    Someone walks into a bar and says
    “Can I have a drink, please?”
    “Maybe some alcohol. I like all kinds of alcohol”
    Sure... What kind of alcohol do you want? Draft beer, bottled beer, wine, liquor, spirit.... What do you want?
    “Um, I hate beer, liquor is too sweet, and spirit is too strong...Wine. I want some wine.”
    I’m losing patience. Red wine, white wine, Rose wine, sparkling wine...
    Okay, we are getting somewhere, but can you be a bit more specific?
    “Small Merlot!”

    “I’m looking for a RP partner”
    Oh really? We’d all be very surprised if you were looking to rent a car here.
    “Just any, literate partner”
    If this is the case, check out what search threads have been posted, maybe your perfect partner is there. We are all kind of literate here...
    “I didn’t like anything in there.”
    Then post, but tell us everything you want. You have ideas? List them. You prefer this over that, tell us. “I like this and this, I want a story to be like this, this and this, and a partner to be like this, this and this and I want them to keep me interested”
    A partner matching your request will appear.
    But it’s not a matter of them keeping you interested, it should be mutual. If not your perfect partner may well disappear.

    How hard can it be?
  2. angelicmadrigal

    angelicmadrigal Resident RP Goddess of Burnout

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    Another suggestion I have on this is check out the potential partner's other work on DR. Pretty much anyone I RP with has been "screened" in some variety. I also encourage potential RP partners to check out my work (both from DR and my Logs from Elsewhere) threads. Sometimes, the proof is in the pudding.
    Doomy, ♥thatcris♥, Ryz14 and 3 others like this.
  3. The Quill

    The Quill Dream Realms Addict

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    I would also recommend making it very clear in your search thread what you are and aren't comfortable with. This hasn't happened to me here yet, but on other sites I had people trying to push me beyond my limits over what I was comfortable with. Post your limits and your kinks on your search thread so you get people with similar interests. If they try to push you beyond your stated limits then they clearly didn't read your thread and have no respect for your boundaries.